First Life Insurance Company Spurs Murfin Memoir

The Rev. Francis Allison, founder of the Corporation for Relief of Poor Widows and Children of Presbyterian Ministers.

On January 11, 1759 the first life insurance company in the Colonies was founded Philadelphia.  It was one of the few innovations in the City of Brotherly love that Benjamin Franklin did not have his fingerprints on, probably because he was in London at the time serving as Pennsylvania’s Colonial agent.  It was left up to the Presbyterian Synod to create the Corporation for Relief of Poor and Distressed Widows and Children of Presbyterian Ministers.  It was what became known as a benevolent society—a corporation for the benefit of a specific group, usually religious, ethnic, or membership of fraternal organizations, and associations of craftsmen.  It took the form of a mutual society, in which benefits were paid to widows and orphans annually based on the number of shares owned by the deceased.

The ever practical Presbyterians modeled their company on the world’s first life insurance company, Amicable Society for a Perpetual Assurance Office, founded in London in 1706 by William Talbot and Sir Thomas Allen.  The development of sound life tables earlier in the decade by mathematician James Dodgeson—the founder of the actuary profession—made accurate calculations of risk available.  It was called the “the basis of modern life assurance upon which all life assurance schemes were subsequently based.”

Copycat Episcopalian priests organized their own fund in 1769.  After a lull due to civil unrest in the Colonies and the American Revolution, life insurance companies spread in the new republic.  Between 1787 and 1837 more than two dozen life insurance companies were organized, but fewer than half a dozen survived.  The oldest commercial life insurance company selling shares to the general public instead of being confined to closed groups was the Mutual Life Insurance Company of New York founded in 1842. 

On the eve of the Civil War the Equitable Life Assurance Society of the United States based in New York pioneered a new form of organization for the life insurance industry based on ownership and control by stockholders, not policyholders.  This form of organization made the insurance business attractive to Wall Street and the banking industry and increasingly integrated it into interlocking financial empires. 

Early critics of life insurance complained that it was like “betting on your own death.”  But inexpensive policies sold through benevolent societies or peddled door to door in working class neighborhoods kept poor families from being wiped out by funeral and burial expenses.  Among the middle class policies helped keep families in their homes and became a way of saving and building assets safely through whole life policies.  

 All of which stirs memories in the Old Man….

The greystone we lived in on North Albany hasn't changed much except for the fancy fencing.  We lived on the first floor.

In the early spring of 1982 I was a brand spanking new young husband and the sudden stepfather to two young daughters.  I had married the former Kathy Brady-Larsen the previous December.  

Earlier, I had moved in to her first floor apartment in a greystone two flat on Albany Street just north of Diversey in Chicago.  This was a significant residential upgrade for a guy who had been living in bathroom-down-the-hall single cockroach infested room with a pull-down Murphy bed.  Kathy managed the building for a young Sicilian who used to live on the second floor and now was back in Italy teaching English in Florence.  She got a deal on the rent and her best friend since high school moved in upstairs.

The neighborhood was a rapidly changing mix of older immigrant Poles and other Slavs, and younger Puerto Rican and Appalachian White families.  There was a bodega at the corner of Diversey, an old fashion neighborhood candy store around the corner at the other end of the block, and two neighborhood taverns within stumbling distance. It was that kind of place.

I was working as a custodian at Coyne American Institute, a trade school on Fullerton.  Kathy was in customer service at Recycled Paper Products, a niche greeting card company on Broadway.  The girls, Carolynne and Heather, were 9 and 7 years old respectively and students at St. Francis Xavier School where Kathy had previously been a volunteer gym teacher.  We were all getting used to each other.  Familial responsibilities were slowly sinking in for me, a feckless, rootless, and utterly irresponsible 32 year old bachelor just months earlier. 

 

One evening as we sat watching the little TV on the rickety stand with the rabbit ears there was a knock at the door.  We were not expecting company.  I answered it.  He stood neatly barbered in a long black overcoat with a neat white scarf.  His dark slacks were creased to a knife edge and he actually had on low rubbers to protect his polished shoes from the slush on the sidewalks.  He carried a zippered black portfolio under one arm.  With the other leather gloved hand he proffered a business card as he greeted me and introduced himself.  The card identified the bearer as a representative of the Sun Life Insurance Company of Canada.

In his rapid patter it became clear that he knew that Kathy and I were newlyweds.  This set him apart from the run of the mill insurance salesman, a profession rife with aimless failures who quickly ran out of family and friends.  This guy was a go-getter who did his homework.  Either he researched marriage licenses at the Cook County Clerk or, more likely, he skimmed the newsletters and bulletins of local churches and spotted the bans printed at St. Francis Xavier before our wedding.

In all of my fashion and glory on Albany Street in Chicago a couple of years after the meeting with the insurance guy.  Not much changed except the glasses.  Dialogue balloon added by daughter Maureen in a family album years later. 

I asked him in. We were about the same age but presented ourselves in vastly different ways.  He was all business and serious about it while being cordial.  He was an up-to-date version of Robert Young’s insurance agent dad in Father Knows Best.  I was shaggy and disheveled.  My hair was long and tied back in a pony tail with loose wisps flying around my ears.  My orange goatee was long and scraggly.  Bent wire frame glasses sat askew on my nose. One eye was half closed, the lingering effect of a case of Bell’s palsy. My worn plaid flannel shirt was speckled with holes burned by Prince Albert tobacco falling from my hand rolled cigarettes.  Inevitably, I had a can of Old Style in my hand.  I looked more like a homeless derelict than a hot prospect.

 Kathy and I settled in with him at the dining room table as he went through his presentation.  He spread colorful brochures with smiling families, pie charts, and what looked like a railroad timetable but turned out to be a mortality table of monthly premiums per thousand dollars of coverage based on gender and age at purchase of a policy.  He spoke directly only to me although Kathy had a significantly larger income and was really the chief breadwinner.  She was also both smarter than me and more competent dealing with the world.  He would occasionally turn his best smile on her and say something like, “you and your children will be safe and secure.”  I think he may have even patted her hand once.

My father, .W. M. Murfin about 1960 in Cheyenne.

 

Thanks to my father, W. M. Murfin, I knew something about life insurance.

Dad was a smart man and had been a small town bank officer before The War.  But the earlier years of deprivation and near hunger during the Great Depression had made him deeply conservative about money.  It was one of the few things he took care to lecture me about to prepare me for the wicked wide world.  

His lessons were simple.  Live frugally, don’t buy on credit, and buy only what you can pay for in cash or one monthly bill.  Save your money.  A bank passbook was a holy object.  Regular deposits in a savings account would, thanks to the miracle of compound interest turn into a sizable nest egg.  He did not trust the stock market.  If you had money to invest you put it in real estate—your own home first—and maybe your own business.  Mom had regularly bought War Bonds and if he had a little extra cash he continued to buy Series E Savings Bonds from time to time.  They were safe and predictable.

To teach my brother Tim and I these lessons, he kept us on tight weekly allowance—I was well into junior high school before I saw a dollar a week—and offered opportunities to earn more for chores like mowing and watering the lawn, burning trash in the incinerator, and shoveling snow.  Every week he or Mom took us to the First National Bank of Cheyenne with our own passbooks to make some deposit in our own accounts.  We were also given a quarter each week to buy a Savings Stamp and when our booklets were filled, redeem them for a $25 Savings Bond.

Benjamin Franklin may never have had anything to do with life insurance, but this company used his name and image anyway and Dad had a policy.

I knew about life insurance because my Dad always had desk calendar emblazoned with a picture of Ben Franklin on it from his Franklin Life Insurance agent and leatherette covered Diary and Date book from Lincoln National Life Insurance bearing the stamped visage of the President.  Both items sat on the cleared top of the mahogany desk in his bedroom along with pen and pencil desk set and ink blotter where he sat down monthly to pay the bills.  

Dad had a whole life policy with both companies.  He was friendly with both agents, which means they shared Scotch on the rocks at local watering holes after work, long businessmen’s lunches, and occasionally went out with their wives to some local affair.  Neither policy was worth more than $5000, but Dad considered them good investments.

Dad took time to explain it to me.  You could buy a lot more term life coverage for the money, but at the end of the term you had nothing. When your whole life policy matured you got the whole face value in cash.   With whole life your premium stayed level from the beginning of the policy until its maturity, typically 20 years.  Term life premiums escalated rapidly with age.  While it was in force, your whole life policy could not be canceled if your health deteriorated while you might not be able to renew term life with a bad health report. 

Finally, and this was important to Dad, if need be you could borrow against the principle in your whole life policy at low interest and few if any questions asked. In fact Dad did just that to start his travel industry public relations company, W.M. Murfin & Associates after he left the Wyoming Travel Bureau in 1963.  The Associates never materialized and the business Highway 20 Association to be his clients.  Eventually he added the Chicago and Detroit Sports, Travel, and Vacation Shows before going to work for them full time and moving us to Skokie.

All of Dad’s advice no doubt served him well.  But much of it was already obsolete by the early ‘80’s.  Raging inflation and sagging interest had destroyed the value of traditional passbook savings accounts. Interest was no longer compounded weekly or monthly as promised in the ‘50’s but quarterly at best.  Leaving money in a savings account meant it was actually losing value.  It was hardly better than putting it in a coffee can and burying it in the backyard.  Ditto for the value of low yielding Savings Bonds which also heavily penalized cashing them in before maturity.  Social changes made establishing credit absolutely essential to daily life.  You could no longer rent an apartment if you had not borrowed and made payments.  Kathy and I actually had to borrow $500 from a consumer finance company at a high interest rate just to pay it off to establish credit before we broke down and got credit cards.

The same was true of most of the old advantages to whole life.  But I was too stupid to know better.  Instead, I listen to the young agent repeat, almost word for word, all of the points my father had emphasized years earlier.  I found myself nodding along.  Kathy quickly realized I was hooked.  She wanted me to feel like I was responsible father, but was nervous about the relatively high monthly premiums.  She convinced me to at least not rush into signing on the dotted line but to take time to considerer it.  I shook hands with the agent and said I would be in contact with him.  

I called Dad for advice.  He was living in retirement in Kimberling City, Missouri with the cheerful former caretaker for my chronically ill mother Ruby who had died the year before.  He was flattered to be asked for advice and a little impressed with his feckless son for even considering the future.  I had never before given much thought past my next paycheck—if I had one coming.  He gently reconfirmed his belief in whole life.

 

The outfit I bought insurance from.

After a couple of days I phoned the agent.  I had to get a superficial physical from my doctor to attest to my clear medical history and good health.  The next Saturday I came into his small office on Belmont where I signed the policy, designated my beneficiaries, and wrote my first premium check.  I purchased a $20,000 policy which was all we could afford and then some.  The agent gave me a policy several pages long with riders, and a plastic wallet to keep them in.  He also gave me a nifty zippered portfolio with pockets, a yellow legal pad, and ball point pen.  I used that portfolio for years.

I left the office and stepped out into a bright, sunny afternoon.  For the first time in my life, I felt like a grownup.

After Maureen was born and we moved to Crystal Lake, we hit a financial rough spot—not uncommon—and Kathy decided we could no longer afford the monthly premiums, especially since each of us had life insurance through our jobs and another policy just to pay off our accumulated credit card debt should I suddenly kick the bucket.  We stopped making payments and lost our paid principle.  

Such is life…